Divorce Coaches are a pretty new concept, and there is a lot of misunderstanding about what they do and if/why you might need one. I wanted to take this week’s blog and answer some of the more general coaching questions that I have been getting.
How much does a Divorce Coach cost, and where do I find them?
How much a divorce coach costs depends on the coach, their business plan, and available packages. The good news is that there are a lot of divorce coaches out there, so if you found the one you like and they don’t fit your budget or personality, reach out to another! A good place to find divorce coaches is the CDC Certified Divorce Coach Directory which can be found HERE. As I write this blog, there are over 200 to choose from! You can search by specialty, too, if you would like, which can help you find someone the most qualified to help with your unique situation (abusive spouse, dating after divorce, co-parenting). Additionally, most coaches accept credit cards and may also work with you on payment options. Don’t forget to ask for military or other discounts!
Do I need a Divorce Coach?
The short answer is no. You do not need a divorce coach. Your divorce will come and go whether you have a coach or not, but if you have a divorce coach, you will likely save money on attorney fees, negotiate better, be more prepared for any mediation you may do, be a better co-parent, and most importantly, you will set and achieve your goals faster and with better aim. Why? Because your divorce coach can help you prepare for attorney meetings (can help you determine what you want to ask for and how/what to prepare and take with you, saving time). Your coach can work with you to practice for mediation so that you are better able to control emotions and achieve the best results, and they hold you accountable to your goals and help you keep your sights set on the future without allowing the weight of divorce to pull you under.
I don’t have time for a divorce coach!
Maybe not, but if you have time to respond to your ex, attend to attorney communications, and drink margaritas with your friends, then you can probably make time to work with a divorce coach Also, the divorce coach works for you. Within their boundaries (set by each specific coach), you may be able to find coaches that offer more or less than the “normal” one-hour-a-week meeting/call. Most coaches do zoom or phone calls now and can save you the in-person meeting/drive time.
I offer things a little different than most coaches; custom full-client options (I am available to you via text/email/phone/in-person as needed) and smaller membership options that allow you access only on an as-needed basis by email. No divorce is the same, and each individual’s needs are different. A good coach will work with you to help you achieve results within their, and your, constraints. Also, the divorce journey is full of unexpected twists and turns; it’s okay to change your mind! You can hire a divorce coach anywhere on that journey, and if it isn’t working out, you can change the package, coach, or level of service. If things start off easy enough, perhaps a #thedivorcebestie membership will be sufficient. If things take a wild turn, you can use your emergency call with a coach to get the support you need. As #thedivorcebestie my goal is to get you through your divorce in a way that makes you proud of how you handle yourself, in a way that is most aligned with your end goals, and in a way that sets you up for post-divorce success!
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KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Your divorce coach works for you, don’t be afraid to shop around and find someone that best fits your personality, situation, and budget.
- A divorce coach saves you time and money and puts you on the fast track to creating your post-divorce life.
- You can do it without a coach, but why would you?
- Will you be proud of your actions at the end of your divorce if left to make decisions caught up in emotion?
- Are you making your divorce easier for you or your ex? A divorce coach will make sure the answer is you.
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