Tag: divorce
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Misunderstood divorce coach questions
Divorce coach questions on cost, format, goals, and key takeaways.
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The Divorce Bestie is born
#TheDivorceBestie It’s heartbreaking. And they aren’t even my kids. In fact, I don’t even know them. My coaching clients are usually fighting for their kids. They have had guardian ad litem’s involved, CPS contacted, and almost always have had the most innocent of parenting situations blown out of proportion and threatened to be used against…
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Surviving Shared Holidays and Creating New Traditions
Holidays land a little differently for co-parents. Even the greatest co-parents out there likely end up sharing their day with their kids, and on top of normal holiday fun (and stress), there can be coordination planning with out-of-the-ordinary drop-offs and pick-ups. It can be really hard. But that first set of holidays without your kids…
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The hardest part of a divorce is surviving. Â Â
 People don’t talk much about how divorce takes over your life. It can be just six months for the lucky ones, but for most people, it’s a minimum of a year. When lawyers and the government (judges) are brought into a personal relationship, it takes you down a horrendous journey that forces you to…
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Create your happy place~ how to idle
I left my husband on a cold day towards the end of February. The year was 2005. I had already arranged for a new home, but my rental agreement didn’t start until March 1st. We were in a limbo period. I had told him I was leaving. I told him I wanted a divorce. We…
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Why a divorce coach? And what’s that?
“How is the couple’s therapy going”? I stared curiously, scrunching my forehead wrinkles, as I tried to understand the question. Was my contractor asking if my husband and I were in couples therapy? That’s an intrusive question, I thought. Then it dawned on me, he was confused about my new career choice. Him and every…